#Note: hugh hefner doesn’t deserve caps in his name. He deserves the lower cases because he is low.
Yesterday my partner & I were talking about playboy & hugh hefner. Before that topic, we were talking about me inheriting all my partner’s possession once he passes away. His collection of long-lost playboy magazines collection popped into my mind because that collection was worth big bucks. Not that I would sell them because that would be hypocritical. Now, why did my partner had a collection of playboy? He was a collector & he had collected those magazines way before I came along. I just wanted to clear that ^. There were other things that were said about him, but I will not disclose it now. The conservation had ended & I went back to my daily routine.
Fast forward to about 1 AM earlier. I was trying to sleep & my partner was still talking to his friends on his XBOX. I told him to knock it off because I was trying to sleep, and he had the audacity to tell me hugh hefner died. I couldn’t believe it. We had just talked about him hours earlier. Was it a coincidence? Maybe it was, but there are way too many” coincidences” in my life. Whatever. Anyway, I wasn’t happy about my partner telling me hugh hefner had died because it was the wrong time to tell me & it caused me to be wide awake & I had to search online to confirm his death. I couldn’t sleep for about 4-5 hours earlier. I had bad insomnia.
I wasn’t expecting Hugh Hefner to pass away so suddenly. It seemed he was like the energizer bunny because he kept on living & living & living. I was wondering how long his life would be. I had wondered about that for years, actually.
You know, I couldn’t stand him. I despised him, to be honest. He wasn’t a liberator at all. Oh, wait. Never mind. I do agree. He was, but he was a liberator for playboys like himself. He wasn’t a liberator when it came to women. No, he was not. He was far from it. He was a master brainwasher & manipulator. He glorified the playboy life & shallowness. Have you ever seen overweight women or average looking women in his magazines? Not that I know of. All these women were airbrushed & had tons of makeup on. There wasn’t anything natural about it because not all women look like those models. Another thing, he had always surrounded himself with fit scantily clad women. I’ve noticed there were a lot more blonde playboy bunnies in photos, too. If it me or did he have a thing for blondes?
He preyed upon young vulnerable naive girls. I can’t say that about all the women that posed in playboy because generalizing is a form of ignorance, but look at Holly Madison. Her life was a nightmare at the infamous playboy mansion. She didn’t have a grand time at all.
Granted, these women did choose to pose nude in playboy, but why did they? To get famous? If that’s the case, then that’s rather messed ^, don’t you think? Why should women have to show off their bodies in this dirty magazine to get famous & noticed? They shouldn’t have to.
I feel some of these women weren’t innocent either because I do feel some of them did use the Playboy brand to get famous, too. I mean, why would they sleep with hugh hefner? Really? He was old enough to be their grandfather/great-grandfather. He had money. He had connections. He had power. I feel some of these women saw that & they took advantage.
Now some of these women saw this as liberation, but it’s not. Yes, women shouldn’t have to be ashamed of their bodies at all & they shouldn’t have to be ashamed of their sexuality. I do agree, but there is a right way & a wrong way when it comes to being sexual & when it comes to showing off their bodies. Posing nude for art is fine & making love to their significant other is fine. Obviously posing nude in a dirty magazine like playboy is the wrong way because there were people that bought the magazine just to get off on the centerfolds & to gawk at these naked women. Sure, some people did read the articles, but not all of them did.
Yea, the magazine had articles, but you know what? They didn’t have to use naked women in their magazine at all. It is possible to sell stuff without using sex. Sex sells, but it’s time to stop using sex to make money.
I thought Roosh V was bad, but hugh hefner takes the cake. I wasn’t surprised hugh hefner supported abortion when I found out. After all, you can have all the sex you want as long as abortion is legal because abortion means to terminate a pregnancy. Using abortion to end unwanted healthy pregnancies is wrong & that should be illegal.
What really made me angry was when I found out earlier that women are sex objects according to hugh hefner apparently. Women are not sex objects. Women are living beings just like men. We are not marketing tools. We are humans. Do you really think he was a feminist? He wasn’t.
Here’s one damning quote he said. “Women are sex objects… It’s the attraction between the sexes that makes the world go ‘round. That’s why women wear lipstick and short skirts.” – hugh hefner in 2010
This just proves my point & other’s people’s point that he used women’s bodies to make big bucks. He saw us as objects. Now…if you still think he’s for women, then you need to open ^ your eyes.
Now that he’s dead, I came to the realization that damage has been done already. It seems like a percentage of people in today’s society think sex is like drugs & alcohol. Having sex is not bad. No, but it’s bad when it comes to lust. Sex (lovemaking) has two purposes. 1. To procreate. 2. Sex is special. It’s an act of love between two people. It’s not about lust & it not about how many people you can sleep with it. It’s not about cheating. Sex is immoral when it comes to lust. Plain & simple. Playboy & hugh hefner wasn’t about love. He was about lust. This is what made him a playboy.
Here are other great articles that further explain how hugh hefner was not all that: